Your where you are because of the choices you have made, don't blame others.
Think before you decide, it doesn't make you weak, it makes you smart.
Plan important stuff out 1st, before you plan the wants out, going hungry with fancy utensils makes you weak.
Lean on yourself, blaming others for falling is a sign of immaturity.

In short.....Seeking immediate gratification before basic needs just makes you a dumb ass!