Change Your Life Photography: MOMS………The Worlds most incredible hero!

Change Your Life Photography: MOMS………The Worlds most incredible hero!: When I was thinking to post an article for Mother's Day I wanted to do something different. Instead of me talking about Mother's and my ...

MOM"S the worlds most incredible hero

 

            MOM’S the world’s most incredible hero's                          

Mom, Mommy, mother, mama, mum…….What does that one word mean?  Notice I didn’t say “one little word”?!!! It has to be the biggest word I know!! It is also the most profound and meaningful word known to mankind.

For some it’s a negative but for the majority the word MOM is a symbol of all things kind, nurturing, strong, warm, creative, giving…and the list could go on forever!!!

Being a mom is the highest honor and greatest responsibility anyone could have. Sure the president can run the country, the PM can make life-changing decisions, a soldier can fight for his/her country but a mother molds those men and women to be whom they are. Good or bad!

Being a mom is at times a struggle, you want your child to be healthy, polite, well off, safe and responsible….but most of all you want them to be happy!! It’s not an easy task to be a mom. I don’t say job because it isn’t, it’s a right, a duty, and honor! It’s the most heartbreaking yet most rewarding thing a woman could do! Often times our kids will take things out on us and direct all anger our way…It’s hurtful yes, but it’s also their way of saying “I’m safe with you and you will love me even if I am being a jerk to you” You see our children need to know that mom will still love them even when they act unlovable. But they also need us to teach them when they are wrong. We do however want the next PM/President? Soldier/teacher/etc, to be an honorable person who can be counted on, trusted, and know what is right and what is wrong.

When a child grows up they will then not only still be our child but our friend. I had the privilege of become quite close to my mommy as an adult. My mommy passed suddenly at age 51, 4 years ago and the emptiness I have in my heart will never go away, it won’t ever heal because I don’t want it too! I want to always feel the strong pain of needing my mommy. I hope my kids will always love and remember me with such passion when my time comes.

Some of us didn’t have the privilege of growing up with a mother for one reason or another, so I plead to women out there who know someone without a mother to reach out…to “adopt” that person, be it child, teenager, or adult. Give what you have been given; be a mother in one way or another, you may never know what that could mean to someone, or how that someone could enrich your life as well!

There are also single mothers out there, regardless of how they got there show compassion, support and understanding. They deal with enough judgment and struggle that just a simple gesture would mean the world to them and give them a boost of power to carry on the already hard task of raising children. Who are we to judge??!!

Finally I want to reach out to children (even children who are mothers as well) Honor your mom, even if she had a hard time raising you, or she seemed “unfair, distant, unavailable” there are so many things sanding in the way of allowing moms to be moms now a days that we need to just look past hurts, misunderstandings and such to find a way t move forward to healing the relationship. Regret is a hard thing to come to terms with when you lose a mother, be it death, distance, or loss of relationship.

I challenge you this mother’s day…Men, Woman, Boys and Girls…Thank your mom and open the doors to communication, understanding, compassion and acceptance but mostly to love! And not just Mother’s day…every day!!!

~T~